Many moons ago, shortly after I published my podcast on Finding Good Prospects for Romance and Friendship, Stella Zawistowski sent me this set of excellent ideas for first dates, particularly geared toward city-dwellers.
- If you live near a college, university, or especially a conservatory for the arts, be sure to get on the school’s mailing list or check posted schedules regularly for free or low-cost performances. You’ll frequently find Shakespeare, dance productions, recitals, orchestra concerts, and sometimes even opera.
- Ballroom dance studios often offer free or low-price guest nights to attract new students. You can enjoy the free beginners’ lesson, then apply your new skills dancing with your date for the rest of the night.
- Many pubs and bars offer trivia nights. You and your date can be a two-person team.
- Some bars and restaurants offer themed wine-tasting nights.
- Picnic in the park. Bonus points if you make the food yourself and/or have a dog that likes to play.
- Follow dinner or drinks with board games instead of a movie.
- In the summer, many cities have food festivals or street fairs that it’s fun to browse with a date.
- If you and your date are sports fans, try minor-league or college games. Minor-league baseball is a particularly fun date, and usually costs the same or less than a movie ticket! If there’s no minor-league team in your area, catch a game at a sports bar.
- Go on a hike (but don’t pick too strenuous a trail; you want to be able to converse with your date).
- Visit your local zoo or botanical gardens to enjoy nature harnessed for man’s enjoyment.
- If your city has a Time Out magazine, subscribe to it (or visit timeout.com) to find all kinds of events.
- Many farmer’s markets offer free or low-cost cooking demonstrations. See how a dish is made, then buy the ingredients, go home and prepare it with your date.
Any other ideas? Post them in the comments!
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