Declining to Socialize at Work
Q&A Radio: Sunday, 10 February 2013, Question 3
I answered a question on declining to socialize at work on Philosophy in Action Radio on 10 February 2013. You can listen to or download the podcast segment below – or check out the whole episode.
How can I politely tell my co-workers that I'm not interested in socializing? I have always struggled with the pressure to form friendships at work. Personally, I don't want to hang out with my coworkers after work. I don't want to chit chat during work. I won't want to celebrate birthdays or other personal events. This is always interpreted as me being snobbish, aloof, and worst of all "not a team player." It's so annoying. I just want to do a good job and then leave, not join a social club. How can I communicate that without being offensive?
My Answer, In Brief: A person can be friendly and pleasant at work while declining to participate in social activities outside of work.
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